After reading Suzy Welch’s article, I was left with a bitter taste in my mouth. For years Oprah’s show has been encouraging women to say no and to put ourselves first. Welch’s article tells us to say yes and to put our careers first. Other pieces in the issue encourage us to slow down and even to take a break from e-mail! I’m confused-should we say no or yes? I work for the consulting firm that chooses Fortune’s 100 Best Companies to Work For in America, and we favor employers who encourage a work-life balance, yet I don’t know of anyone who ever became a CEO by putting that into practice. How do we find the right balance for us? Is Welch suggesting that a woman can’t have it all?
Roxann Allen
OAKLAND, CALIFORNIA
Suzy’s response:You’ve hit the nail on the head, Roxann. Women’s lives these days can be confoundingly complex and filled with contradictions. My intention when I wrote the article wasn’t necessarily to urge women to put their careers first by always saying yes; it was more to explore the reality that when you say no, there are consequences. The best decisions are always informed decisions.
- Wrote for her audience – women
- Wrote about a topic Oprah cares about - women and life/work balance (even if you don’t think there is a distinction, Oprah’s audience still does
- Kept it short & to the point
- Established credibility – mentioned that I worked on a high profile magazine article in Fortune Magazine
- Established history with Oprah – that I’ve followed her for years and know what she cares about, that women should be empowered to balance all aspects of life
- Interesting content – even Suzy Welch felt compelled to respond!
B) No one ever reads that section anyway
B) Baby steps, small actions, that you can test and learn from get you closer to a big goal